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Personality Doubts
I'm a man 34 years old and I'm a Scorpion by birth. Since my school days I have always had friends but never had close friends. Either because of the fear that they might become to personal or may be because my parents thought that it would distract me from my studies. That's been the case throughout. During my journey till now I have come across friends but never close friends. Whatever ppl I can think of I hardly contact them. Plus my thinking is that if they don't need me or value me..why should I bother. I'm married because of marriage problems I feel I don't have anyone to share my problems with. I can't share it with parents coz already they have gone through a lot and don't want to bother them anymore. I also tend to get angry when ppl tease me in a group I feel awkward being friends they tease me. When I think of it I feel I really don't have anyone as best friend or good friend. I feel once my parents pass away I won't have anyone. I don't feel happy in life.
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Astrology and personality scientifically not interconnected. You were unable to make a close friend because of your belief system. Tips won't be helpful to overcome your problems. It would be better you should consult a clinical psychologist. They will help you to learn and enhance your skills of coping, emotional stability, and insecurity feelings besides fears.
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Hi, After reading your complain, I felt very hopeful about you, because you are able to express what you are going through.It shows that you will be be able to sort out your issues, but with the help of psychologist. Your issues are interconnected hence you need a professional to help you untangle them one by one.
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Without wasting any time consult a counsellor.
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Your mind is full of pre conceived notions,lot of if and buts. You seem to be sensitive and too self critical.this can be due to your childhood experiences but please be little easy on yourself try to learn and adapt to a situation as it is don't try to dig deep in a situation.
As you said 'parents have gone through a lot ' so before helping you I need to know your complete history.you seem to find difficulty in trusting people easily I'm sure your experiences must be responsible for your behavior.
Try to connect more with your environment,please reach out to a professional help to unwind your thought process.
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First of all thanks for reaching out .The situation that you have described is in layers.Let me untangle the issues and put them here
One which you have presented apparently, u don't have friends.
Second the relationship with your wife is not a very smooth one.
Third there are instances of bullying which you find hard to deal with and that leads to anger in you.
Fourth you are worried about the future when you might need emotional support and might have none.
Thinking about all this is making you unhappy in the present.
These are very deep issues and they all need to be sorted ,worked on so that you find peace within yourself.
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Please see a counselling Psychologist for further help as these issues need deeper working.To start of trying including some exercise and deep breathing practices in your daily life ,these would help in pumping happy hormones in your system and alleviate your distress to some extent.
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Hello practo user
Can understand ur problems well. U need to ventilate urself first. Secondly don't underestimate urself. Ifvu feel ur frnds don't bother you don't think bad becoz everyone has dere own perceptive . Yiu go to meet with ur frnds for ur personal sake and happiness . And we do everything for our happiness.
Try to indulge urself wat gives u happiness.
Book an appointment with me i will support you to manage ur relationship and how can be yiu make urself happy
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Yes, I do understand and agree the difficulty for not having anyone to share my feelings and issues with..
At the same time, the issues between a couple, is not a thing which should be spoken and discussed outside both of your family members.. At the best, it is better to seek a professional support to get a clarity and guidance from them..
I see there are some other issues as concerns for you.
I suggest you to consult a psychological Counselor to understand yourself better and to overcome this issue...
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For a detailed discussion and therapy, you can connect with me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Hi
I appreciate that you reach out with your concern
Whatever information you provided on that basis I can say that u r facing issues
1 relationship building
2 anxiety about future- what will happen
3 feeling of loneliness
4 anger with self and others
U need life skills training by expert psychologist to resolve above issues
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book an online appointment with me at Practo-Rupali Mohbe
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start doing physical exercise for an hrs along with Persie some hobby
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