Problem in married life could be very stressful but the key is communication . Until you do not communicate and verbalise ( talk ) your expectations, your problems or want you want or not want in your married life Don’t expect him to understand automatically. At the same time you have to understand his problems,his expectations and find a common ground . Secondly it is important that you show love to each other more directly ( eg telling each other I love your or giving small gifts etc) You could also do some couple therapy sessions which would help