Hello doctor , Im 31 Years old and married for the last 1 year and 1 month on the first 3 - 4 months i never had intercourse or any kind of oral sex with my partner because it was a perfectly arranged marriage and I maintained a comfort zone between us. after that we had a medical emergency in our family and that also delayed things. All these time we had pur private moments and was happy with those. Recently ie before 3 months i started showing interest in having an intimate relationship and things turned out bad for me. She admitted she was afraid all this time to have an intercourse and also she doesn't even allow me to touch her intimate parts. She is also reluctant to Oral sex as she suggests even after washing those areas can never be maintained hygienic. This is affecting me mentally so much that it is creating problems between us. As I'm reaching 1000 words limit , you might understand my situation. I really need a kid and my parents are also too old to be around much long.help