Take proper knowledge about this first

bleeding happens only with rupture of tight hymen only and not loose one.Hymen can also rupture while swimming,horse riding and gymnastics so bleeding does not always happen during sex

Its not necessary  ..u both can take proper counseling to clear all ur doubts

Yes there are ways and reasons why not to have bleeding P/V while having first intercourse . Don't worry u will be helped for needful I understood your concern  and noted the problem as well .I need to ask few more details to make a diagnosis and start treatment and advice which suits you. Pl consult me on Practo , so that I can help you better.book a time slot as per your convenience for consultation.