This nose dryness with running nose and congestion, triggered by temperature change and recurring for years, usually points to allergic or vasomotor rhinitis rather than a structural problem. Petroleum jelly and a decongestant spray only help you short term. They don't treat the underlying sensitivity, so the relief doesn't last.
Next Steps
Try a saline nasal rinse daily, even between flares, since it moisturises your nasal lining better than jelly. An allergy workup, or a short trial of a steroid nasal spray, can help since this keeps recurring. Please see a physician or ENT to discuss the options.
Health Tips
Avoid using a decongestant spray for more than a few days at a stretch, since it can make your congestion worse with continued use.