I understand your concern. Lying or manipulating can be a part of personality issues as well. However more clarity is needed regarding the problem to decide on severity of the condition. However it is manageable with appropriate treatment, so that dysfunction due to the same can be reduced and the quality of life will improve. Some counselling sessions and if needed medical help might be useful. I would also be more than happy to help you with that if you are looking for further information. Discussions will be held confidential. You can directly consult with me through Practo as needed. Online chat consultation is available.