Hello,
You are concerned and stressed about your brother's disrespectful behaviour towards your parents. His irresponsible actions at home are also causing stress to you.
You wanting to help the situation is appreciable.
He is somehow displacing his anger on you and your parents. He is facing failure in his professional and personal life and coping with it by placing the blame on others to avoid taking responsibility for his actions.
He needs to be made aware by assigning him work so that he uses his energy in a constructive manner and starts taking responsibility for himself.
Communication about boundaries which are acceptable and not acceptable can help him realise about his contribution towards the well-being of the family.
The environment at home certainly gets challenged. However, by making him realise that his actions are leading to undesirable consequences on others is required.
Counseling sessions and therapy shall help him reform.He can release his suppressed feelings as he requires empathy and support to move out of this phase of frustration to a healthy acceptance of self and the family.
You can consult for further professional guidance.
Happy Healthy Living!
Answered2025-02-18 06:13:36
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