Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help. If you are committed to this relationship, then you need to justify and show important by allotting quality time.
Looks like your concerns is on time management than the actual relationship issues. Learn time management techniques.
Consult a psychologists to discuss in detail to understand the simple and practical solution that you can follow to overcome such issues
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