You need counseling sessions. There are techniques to reduce unwanted or excessive sexual attraction. You will be benefited.

Hi Consult a psychologist and explain about your thoughts and masturbation addiction. With a psychologist you can talk about your family, childhood, lifestyle, eating habits, and sleep pattern. Doing sex in spa is not healthy. A psychologist will help you get rid of certain thoughts and masturbation addiction. A psychologist will guide you on how you can have a healthy relationship. Do not worry counselling sessions will help you.

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Hi,OCD and anxiety,can effectively be treated with counseling sessions along with medications.

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Hi... These habits might be a consequence of a repressed sexual need or it may simply be a consequence of a poor routine, lack of motivation, poor social interaction, etc. Sex is a basic human need and it cannot be efficiently replaced by porn, masturbation, etc. Paid sex is also not a very good replacement because it takes away the component of feeling wanted by the opposite sex, as you know the other person is with you only because s/he is getting paid to do so. Rather, it is better to go into a mutually acceptable relationship which has more than sex to offer each other.