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Hello doc. I married a woman 2.5 months ago and its a totally arrange marriage before marriage we met 3 times and we knows each other for 2 months only. As our parents want to so...
Now some problem occurred nowadays
1. She is introvert and i am extrovert so she thinks i can easily cheat her .
2. As i have 3 past relationships and she don't have so she think i am not the type of guy and she believe past relationships are also affect myself and thats why she dont have mentally satisfaction
3 . She think i am not platonic person. Yes i am not a platonic person.. But she think she accept me 80% and rest of the 20% not .
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Nowadays we quarrel each other. Sometimes i lost my temperament i shout. She always tell me she want separation but i dont believe separation can workout specially in our middle class family. I always try to tell her family means togetherness separation leads to hell.
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And she always find answers from google.
Negative think attract her mind always.
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Sir , you both need a proper relationship counseling . it should be based on your VAK and also other parameters which define your lives. NLP, can be good approach , as we have certain techniques like WALT Disney Techniques, which can help both of you to see better life
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Hi. Thank you for sharing your inner world and being courageous to ask for professional help.
I am sorry that you are currently struggling. Individual and couples counseling can help you both understand yourselves and each other better.
You can explore:
1. How you both can come to a middle ground to understand each other
2. What are your non negotiables (somethings that are your minimum needs/ wants from your partner/ wife) in a relationship?
3. What are HER non negotiables (needs or wants that she you have to fulfil for her)?
4. How can you both communicate calmly and patiently without hurting or disrespecting each other?
5. How can you function as team mates instead of against each other?
6. How can you both work towards managing your temper?
For more mental health tips and insights, follow @TherapyWithShaurya on Instagram.
Hope this helps. Take good care.
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Hello there
I can understand what you might be going through.
It might be hard for you to fight almost everyday to keep your life together.
Don't worry, consult a good therapist or a counsellor for marriage counselling soon as possible.
You can also contact me and I will try to help you towards your recovery. Let's discuss both of your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solutions.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!
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session will be of fifty minutes.
cost three hundred only.
whatz app @seven zero two six six six two six six four
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