We are married for 6 years and having a girl child aged 5 years. Due to work we were separated for few years and didn't had proper penetrative sex. But now when I'm trying to have penetrative sex my spouse is saying that while inserting penis and trying to stroke, due to rubbing she is having irritation at vagina and due to this we are not able to have penetrative intercourse. We are having good enough fore play and after hers is wet then only I'm going for penetrative sex. But still this problem we are facing. Any lubrication gel I should use to overcome this. Kindly suggest remedy. Thank you.