Married for 12 years, often make my better half feel sad because of my behaviour, of not giving her love and affection to the degree she expects. Certainly I know sometimes am letting her down. Probably because of my egoistic behaviour and something else i keep on disappointing her. Ofcourse I know I have to change but that's hardly happening with me. Even I doubt this has had an affect on our marital life also. Want to really change myself so that I am affectionate to my wife and my beautiful cute kids. Need to consult someone but don't know who to!