I can understand that you are in a situation where you have too much things to handle. A Counseling Psychologist can help you to set goals and think clearly about the situations. Understanding the pro and corns , how to priorities your needs , how to work on them one at a time to be more efficient.  If you have any other situations that need to be handed will also be addressed.

Hi , Appreciate that you have reached out here to talk , I can understand it becomes really stressful when there a constant family pressure this is because they are not able to look at things from your point of view . Marriage is a big decision and it needs to be taken when you are ready for the same .

My name is DHEERAJ KANSAL and I'm a clinical psychologist. I wanted to personally welcome you to platform and let you know that we're here to help you on your journey. Taking care of your mental health is important and we're committed to providing you with the support and resources you need.

It’s common with lot of people at this age .. the feeling of irritation comes from lack of control But you are never really out of control Ultimately it’s your wish In mean time keep focusing on career Keep taking things light Let it be a background noise for now All the best

Hi, Consult a psychologist for professional help.

Before we can explain to the other person, we have to understand the other person, so you first need to understand your parents point of view, only then you will be successful in making them understand your point of view. You should book an online appointment with me to deal with your issue in a better way.

Hi Broader perspective

Please you have only one life..live it nicely.. marriage is not an end goal.do marriage when you are ready for it

As a professional, consider the following advice: 1. **Communication is Key:** Maintain open and honest communication with your parents. Clearly express your aspirations for financial independence and personal growth before marriage. 2. **Educate and Share Goals:** Share your career and personal goals with your parents, helping them understand the importance of achieving these milestones before entering into marriage. 3. **Explore Compromises:** Discuss potential compromises that address your parents' concerns while allowing you the space and time needed to pursue your goals. 4. **Set Boundaries:** Establish firm yet respectful boundaries regarding your decisions. Clearly communicate that your desire for independence doesn't diminish your love and respect for your family. 5. **Seek Professional Guidance:** If the situation becomes challenging, consider involving a family therapist or counselor who can facilitate constructive conversations and provide guidance. 6. **Stay True to Yourself:** Remember that your life choices ultimately need to align with your values and aspirations. Stay true to yourself while finding a balance that respects your family's concerns. 7. **Patience and Empathy:** Approach the situation with patience and empathy. Understand that it might take time for your parents to fully comprehend your perspective, and expressing your understanding of their concerns can help foster a more cooperative dialogue. 8. **Network and Support:** Connect with individuals who have successfully balanced career and family life. Hearing their experiences may provide valuable insights and serve as examples for your family. Remember that finding common ground often requires time and ongoing communication. Be persistent in expressing your goals and aspirations while maintaining respect for your family's concerns. If needed, professional guidance can be instrumental in navigating these discussions.

Try to believe what you think PPL around you may insist you to go for marriage but without your decision, it is not going to happen. When u r clear about ur path...no question of toll...be with urself.

Hi, I'm sorry to hear that you're in a difficult situation. Talk to your parents, convince them, ask them to give you some more time. Do not Get married when you are not ready!

Keep the communication channels open, you can take help of someone who can help you by explaining this to your elders at home. Keep your focus in your work/ studies. Show seriousness in it.....it will definitely make them understand sooner or later. This is just a roadblock......look for appropriate diversions......life road will never be straight and smooth......It will bring some challenges in between and would test your ability to think diversely.

Talk to a therapist and seek their support to have a better clarity and to overcome this issue..

I understand that the pressure to marry can be overwhelming, impacting your mental well-being. It's crucial to communicate your feelings to your family honestly. Consider expressing your desire to focus on personal and career growth at the moment. Engaging in open conversations and setting boundaries can be beneficial. Therapy, like the services offered at Mind Sculpt, can provide a safe space to explore these concerns and equip you with effective communication skills.