Hi, I understand your distress, living in the conditions you have mentioned can be really stressing. But, since this involves another person, you must understand that suggesting you something doesn't change your dad's behaviour towards you. And also, does he behave like this only towards you or is he like that in general? Have you ever spoken to your father regarding how hurtful it is for you for having to face this on day to day basis?
Looks like this problem warrants for a psychological evaluation.i would suggest a family therapy. There are good clinical psychologists in your city , you may consider contacting them alone first and then taking your family with you.
Health Tips
Try and talk to your dad about what is hurting you.
When irritated or angry, you can use distraction techniques, easily available online.
You might feel angry, but resisting from showing that anger out might help you keep the situation from going into a fight. (long term suppression of anger is not good. I suggest u practice this until a psychological consultation, post which you can follow wat your therapist says).