Dear Sir,
Pain during intercourse can occur due to several reasons, including inadequate natural lubrication, involuntary tightening of the vaginal muscles, vaginal dryness, inflammation, or other gynaecological conditions. If lubricants have not helped, further evaluation is advisable rather than continuing to manage the problem on your own.
Given your concern about penile size and your wife’s discomfort, please avoid forceful penetration and do not continue intercourse if it causes pain. Allow sufficient time for arousal and intimacy, and communicate openly with your wife about her comfort. Penetration should be gentle and only continue when she feels comfortable.
My recommendations are:
* Your wife should undergo a follow-up gynaecological assessment to identify the underlying cause of the pain.
* Avoid intercourse that causes discomfort until the cause has been assessed.
* If the problem persists, a specialist experienced in sexual health can help evaluate possible contributing factors and guide appropriate treatment for both partners.
Remember, painful intercourse is not something your wife should have to tolerate, and effective management depends on identifying the underlying cause.
Warm regards,
Dr. Fayyaz Sattar
Sexologist
Dr. Fayyaz Sexology Clinic, Mumbai
Answered2026-10-17 06:13:49
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