Sorry to hear about your situation. Without sounding patronising and judgemental, I would like to reassure you that nobody can escape from other people's views either good or bad, intentional or unintentional, correct or wrong! At the same time, it is important to know that each one of us have both strengths and weaknesses. It is the nature's law. However if you remain psychologically stressed due to others views, please consult psychiatrist for an assessment and appropriate treatment/support. Best wishes.