If you want to move on then you know what to do. For what happens later, you can consult a psychiatrist. If you have problems dealing with your decision or any other issues.

Hello, Undefined relationships are always problematic. You have to be very clear about what you want from the relationship. Communicate this very clearly to the man. If he is able.to respond on a way that you want (completely) then you can continue with this. If there is a difference in what you want and what he wants them better to move on. It may be difficult initially, but will be beneficial in the long run. Do not look at short term benefits. You have had your fun but you know that it brings on trouble. Think wisely and act responsibly towards yourself.