Fear of abandonment ( not sure)

2020-12-23 10:15:55
Lately, I have been feeling that I add no value to my boyfriend's life (he is workaholic I clearly understand and I never want to seek his attention), i feel his life would have been much easier without me he could date as many girls he want to, he doesn't have to deal with my insecurities and waste his time everytime I am being very emotional .I think he is just staying with me because he think I am innocent,  kind and truthful, emotionally broken person, he is affectionate but I don't think he loves me like I do, or I think I put my heart and soul to be with him, share everything, he is very important part of my life. He doesn't share most of his thoughts to me. I feel I only know him and not his family whereas he knows evrything about my family, friends and evryone. Not once so many times I feel the pain of our break up. But If I am the one who is pulling him back in his lifen maybe I should let him go no matter how much I love him.
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U have low self-esteem. U need to improve first. Love your self. Understand your self. Don't I'll treat your self. Feel like Hum kisise come nahi. Don't compare your self with others. Compare with your self with you only. Be better with daily goals. Say your self CAN. Improve your thought process will help you lot. U have good future.

Answered2020-12-25 15:06:19

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Answered2020-12-24 08:00:12

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Hi It does reflect your insecurities For a relationship to work both need to be compatible share common interest and have good understanding The way you love him may not match with the way he loves you as people have different ways of expressing love and no one is wrong. Before making assumptions or concluding anything have a good talk with him. It could also be you are unable to cope up with him being a workholic ans not having much time for you You both need to balance and reach a common ground
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Take it easy.. Whatever will happen will be for good for all... :)

Answered2020-12-23 14:04:19

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Please connect with a counselor as they will help in strengthening your emotional state. We use various unique techniques to empower the counsele. You need to share more details s to ensure you get the right inputs and flow of thought from the counselor. I use CBT, Art therapy , EI and many other therapies to strengthen your mind .
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Answered2020-12-23 14:40:37

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It looks like you are confused and be9of which you feel the Insecurity in this relationship.. I think the expectations in you about him and about his behaviour are not met by him.. Hence, you might feel that he isn't loving and caring.. Though you claim that he is affectionate.. I suggest you to consult a psychological Counselor for a therapy to get more clarity and understanding about yourself and about your future life..
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Answered2020-12-23 12:57:50

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Hi there...I would like to ask you ,what makes you feel like as if you do not add value to your boyfriend’s life and that his life would have been much easier without you??You have mentioned that he is workaholic..I am getting a picture that he is occupied in his work and hence not able to spend much of his time with you or attend to your feelings..Please help me understand what all have you tried so far and what were his responses? To help you in a better way I would like to suggest you to please visit a Counseling Psychologist/ therapist via Practo. Stay Safe and take Care.
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Answered2020-12-23 11:08:48

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