Hi,
You can try with water soluble lubricants like Ky gel or Lubic Gel.
for your wife issue there is a possibility she must be having vaginismus. Vaginismus is a condition involving a muscle spasm in the pelvic floor muscles. It can make it painful, difficult, or impossible to have sexual intercourse, to undergo a gynecological examination.
However need not worry as there is cure for every issue.
Answered2022-08-17 04:14:59
Let others know if this answer was helpful