Hi... Try to grasp this, there is a global economic downturn and the next 6 months are estimated to be most turbulent for India. Keeping employments intact is going to be a challenge. Recent rise in cases of new omicron BF. 7 variant in certain countries has added on to the global economic crisis. Whenever there is such a situation the marital, family, and personal life of common people is going to be greatly impacted. I understand that there might be issues already existing in your marriage but the present environment is also straining it a lot. I would suggest to give yourself some time and decide what is non negotiable for you. You have to decide between your ability to raise your child without doing a full-time job or raising your child away from you after some time. As a clinical person I must tell you that initial 3 years of a child's life are very important. The hardware is getting prepared. So you have to choose wisely. After 3 years of age child's raising is going to become relatively more manageable. But it is a long term task. I would also suggest that both of you need to make a rational analysis of both of your's financial situation. Whose employment is relatively more stable, reliable, and earning more money to support your family to sustain in the present economic crisis. You both need to work as a unit because you both want your kid to have a good life. You can choose where your marriage is leading may after giving it sometime and letting this economic stressor get better. My suggestion is to focus on keeping your and your family's physical and mental health in a good shape till 2025 and post that the world economic and security scenario is going to get much better. Remember, tuff times do not last, tuff people do.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required. Marital Counselling is also required.
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