I understood your concern  and noted the problem as well .I need to ask few more details to make a diagnosis and start treatment and advice which suits you. Pl consult me on Practo , so that I can help you better.book a time slot as per your convenience for consultation.

It’s fine if soap touches. In fact you have to do bath every day starting from 2 days after surgery. I remove the dressing the next day after surgery and leave it open. Keep a whisper pad (sanitary pad) in the underwear after that m, to avoid friction. Anytime after 5-7 days you can get back to gym. Avoid excessive straining so as to avoid sweating there.