Communication is the key to solving all conflicts.  Take combined responsibilities for things. Visit a qualified psychiatrist with counselling services or clinical psychologist and not just a counseller.

Dear friend, You need relationship counseling. I would suggest you to go to psychotherapist and not just a psychiatrist or a counselor. Go to a psychotherapist who is well experienced who can help both of you resolve your issues. Visit my website www.mastermindfoundation.com Feel free to contact me for further guidance Wushes

I appreciate your thought to approach for a professional help. You can find through this portal either psychologist of Family Counsellor.  Fix an appt and resolve ur issues and live happily

Hi, you rightly said that both of you need counseling. You can visit a Psychiatrist who does marriage counseling or a Psychologist who does marriage counseling . Nowadays there are many practitioners parading as therapist , counselor, healer etc. Please check that you visit either a Psychiatrist( M.D/ DNB  in Psych) with counseling experience or a Psychologist( M.A/ PhD  Psychology) with extensive counseling experience. Ask around or go by reference given by your family doctor or friends and family. Also, you can check feedback of Doctors on Practo and decide. Hope this helps.