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Depressed feeling coz of my father
My name is pradeep Pandiyan I am 31 years old, from my childhood I am under the control of my father he is strict and friendly too and also I am albino affected men so I have some complex problems since my childhood so I can't participate in some the school events because of my albinism, my problem is I can't restrict my father's words in many cases and also I suffer a lot, he is always insisting me to do that for this and don't do without knowledge and also I can't drive a car too by thinking of himself what he'll tel if I hit the car , then I ll be home on time because of him I can't speak any words against him I can't do the things as my wish main thing is if I do any thing first and for most he is coming to my mind and make me fear and I can't make any decission without thinking of hime sometimes I prepare to speak against him but I can't , mostly I felt depressed and took bad decision like suicide but I can't what's the solution for this how can I overcome, my marrige life affects
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Your concerns are valid. Try to read self help books. I hope it all gets better.
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Please consult. Therapy would be a great help.
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It would be kind of difficult, but maybe talking to your dad about how you are feeling would help.
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Hi Pradeep,
You seem to be in a tough spot there. It must be very difficult to stand up for yourself in the face of someone who is so very important to you.
It's important to work on your self-esteem and confidence first.
Speak to a therapist for guidance.
Take care.
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Pradeep! It must be really distressing. I can imagine. Pradeep you need to talk about it and your feelings. Parental control can be really distressing and hard to deal with. And i can imagine it must be making you feel stuck. Not only your marriage life, but all other aspects of life would get affected if you're feeling this.
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consult a registered professional.
you need to learn how to deal with this situation appropriately. Forming boundaries, gaining confidence, assertive communication, self acceptance / body image issues and many more if they are bothering you.
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please share your feelings about suicide to someone who can help you.
it's important.
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