You should definitely consult a counselor. If he delays or isn't ready to see a counselor, I would suggest you to talk to him, not about your marriage or your mother but about any other personal issue that you have and ask his opinion on the same creating trust.
Once that is done, start getting close to him and convince him. If still he fails to understand your point, please find someone who he listens to OR he trusts.
All the best.
Answered2017-06-11 12:13:12
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