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Hi . Will need further history regarding the same to advise appropriately.

Hi there, A detailed history and Mental Status Examination is always needed to make a diagnosis and also to manage the case accordingly. Without it, it is difficult to comment about your problems. What exactly you want in relationships and in your life is not clear.

I can understand about your emotions in your age ..are quite changing and opposite sex attraction are very high so we easily indulge in relationship but suppose someone is really in love with u then family background financial status doesn't matter, second case u tortured by him it means u r fails to find right person .takes your time while u r in relationship..don't come it easily for lust .. if u choose right person definately you will not feel emotional pain too much .better comes for counseling either online or offline