That’s called Bread-crumbing and you would have to work consciously to break this pattern

Not everyone gets attracted to ever other.  First things first peoples intrest in others varies. Be yourself, love yourself and project yourself well. Eventually things will fall into place. Incase you are feeling lonely and longing for friendship,  if you have trouble mingling with people  go for counseling

Hi, Some people have these qualities by nature.I think being a good listener will help you to get more friends.You can learn communication skills from a professional.Try not to push yourself too far to make friends.Be yourself.Improve your skills and knowledge.Consult a psychologist

Hi Thanks for reaching out. You want to mingle with people. It sounds like you want to connect with people and have a good time. If you want to mingle with people you can think of joining classes or social activities. It is also important to feel comfortable with yourself. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself about mingling with people. Consult a psychologist and talk about what is bothering you with regard to mingling with people. Talking to a psychologist will help you feel better.

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First you need to understand yourself, you should find that which thing is good in you it can be your smile, your way of talking, your beautiful or it can be any other thing because these plays a very crucial role in attraction. for better understanding of your issue you can consult me through Book an online appointment.

Consulting a therapist you might get some clarity and understanding about yourself better..

To attract people, be yourself, share your interests, and listen. Learn about attachment styles—how we connect with others. It's okay not to have a best friend; meaningful connections take time. Set boundaries, respect others, and be patient. If you need support, consider talking about it in counseling with Mind Sculpt.

Hello, Accept yourself the way you are. You can connect with people with whom you can be yourself. Once you are happy in your own company, understand your emotions, you will automatically connect meaningfully with the right kind of people. You can befriend a hobby, book, pet, plant and engage yourself. The need to connect with people is natural as we are social beings. However, this process can be natural and meaningful. You can consult for further professional guidance. Happy Healthy Living!

It's give and take relationship.the way you don't put efforts they have also stop doing it.