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2024-03-15 17:25:47
Hello Doctor, I need your  valuable support on this below topic.. I am in a phase of getting divorced and have girl child..I haven't talk with me for 3 years and so She is 9yrs old now.. My ex wife really restricted my child to see and talk with me from all the sources and made very bad  impression about me and deeply rooted her with negative comments about me about the past..even my child feels the same ..avoids my eye contacts too.. Am hoping to see my child soon after divorce.. My question how should I approach my child when I am meeting after almost 3 years now.. I don't know what to talk and how to pacify her.. Moreover the child really under bad impression about me..which rooted by my ex and  her parents... Your support is priceless to lead healthy and strong emotional life  with my Kid..
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Divorce is difficult and speration from child is more fearful . In this scenario there are lot of assumption so get help . Detail assessment is needed to know how exactly we can help
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Hi ..Separation and divorce aren’t easy. There may be bad feelings between the parents and their families. Children can pick up on this, which may confuse or upset them, or even lead to them blaming themselves for a break-up. It's important to empathise with them. you can try the suggestions below: remind her that both parents love her. be honest when talking about it, but keep in mind the child's age and understanding avoid blame and don't share any negative feelings you have about your wife or her parents. let her know she  can talk about her feelings with you – explain that it's OK to be sad, confused or angry listen more than you speak – asking questions will help her to open up. All the best.
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consult for further queries and counseling

Answered2024-03-16 06:52:55

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It’s a sweet topic and I would really help you feel confident meeting your child Just seek online therapy sessions because it’s not a one line solution Let’s talk work on your fears and make you better prepared to deal with situation All the best

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Heyy I can help you better with further treatment course needed. U can connect me via whatsapp on seven zero eight two zero two two zero six two.

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Father and daughter always share different and unique bind ..don't worry once she will understand she will not judge you and it's her opinion , it can be changed according to your behaviour and situation.

Answered2024-03-18 01:19:06

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U should take elaborate counselling sessions before u meet
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Consult clinical psychologist

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I understand it is a difficult situation for both of you. However it can be resolved through professional guidance.
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Consult a certified clinical psychologist

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