Wellness Greetings to you I totally could relate the feelings you are experiencing but just because you are in a circus don't try to run a show as any animal, to which you aren't okay to do. Society is just a circus, they aren't going to acknowledge you unless you are confident of being who you are. Adoption isnt the challenge here, accept the person who you were and are.. Talk to a professional regarding this..

Fix an appointment with a therapist to understand yourself better and to overcome this issue.. Consult a psychological Counselor..

Hello there I can understand what you are going through right now. You might have already felt that why are you not so up to the mark according to your society and a little different from your family. But when you found out that you were adopted. Maybe you got a reason to your question. But you cannot trust this reason blindly because even in some families, biological children are also different. It depends on many other factors and there could be many reasons because of which you feel the need to improve yourself. It is very good that you want to improve yourself. But don't do it for matching with your society, do it for yourself. You will feel better. Also, you might be exploring your qualities as well as traits at the same time. For solution of all these, consult a Psychologist or a Counsellor. You can also consult me and I will help you in not only discovering your strength and traits but also solutions to your problem.

Hi... Our personalities are a product of several factors like, Genetics , Environment , Individual differences in perceiving our environment, Education, Peer Groups, Teachers, Friends, etc. You can't conclude that you are unlike your parents because they are not your biological parents. This conclusion is more emotional than scientific. You have received parenting from them so you would have developed certain traits like them but may be you were different as a child and as a young adult now. So you have developed your own ways of perceiving the world and dealing with it. You don't need to fit into your family environment, you are already part of it and infact you form it.