Thank you for reaching out. It’s evident you’re trying your best, and it’s understandable to feel overwhelmed. Your son’s behaviors and the assessment reports indicate some neuro-developmental challenges that need structured, compassionate support, not punishment. Please refrain from putting him in a boarding school as that might cause more emotional harm to the child.
Please continue with professional guidance and consider therapy for yourself too, as your wellbeing is equally important in helping him.
Next Steps
Consult a psychotherapist, for dealing with your own emotions as well as to learn about strategies to manage maladaptive behaviours of your child.