Hello, The condition as described by you definitely requires a detailed assessment. The psychological reasons behind this angst that you display should help in dealing with the situation at hand. Also a anger management, stress management, and exploratory ventilation related therapy will help you. My suggestion for you is to please seek a consultation with a psychiatrist or a clinical psychologist near you for comprehensive assessment and further management. Some psychological tests will also be required to understand your condition. Whether or not marital or couples intervention is required will have to be decided after thorough assessment. Hope this helps you. Best wishes for your health and future.