A few months ago my husband and I reconciled after a near divorce. I’d been with another man. A few weeks after reconciling my vulva became very irritated and almost raw feeling. Especially with inter coarse and shaving. I went to the doc. She tested for infections. Came back clean. She said just use lube and see how it goes. Now I have a small lump under skin at bottom of vaginal opening and a few growths that stick out, just inside the vaginal opening. They’re long and skinny.