Hello Friend, thanks for reaching out here for help. Any relationship issues will lead to depression if not addressed on time. You may be right. Messy house management  could be a reason, but is that the only reason for your relationship issues?. If you are interested to resolve this, then you need to further deep dive into the root cause. If you can do it yourself, then great. If not, then take a guidance of any psychology counselor. He can assess your current suitation, identify gaps, and recommend possible solutions