Hello,
This is nothing but the lymph node enlargement in the upper neck. And it enlarges when there is acute infection or inflammation in the oral cavity, lips, etc. Since you are having some discomfort, it is better to consult a doctor, directly or via video conference mode. And medication is recommended for the management of the problem.
Advice: Try to cut down on smoking habits, eat healthy foods, and try to decrease stress levels.
Brush your teeth twice daily, and maintain oral hygiene
Next Steps
Consult with ENT specialist for further opinion