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Regarding 7 year old son
My 7 year old son is Highly Sensitive ( to sound, touch, temperature, texture). So much like yesterday he got visible goosebumps when I was turning pages and my finger was dragging over the pages a bit..
He behaves very weirdly when someone outside the family speaks to him. Just a Hello, and he will turn his face and will not reply. He does not like crowds, or gatherings. He doesn't like any stranger to talk to him, his body language changes, he becomes very anxious and defensive.
Also, he can't wait even 4-5 minutes. He needs to move something somewhere, do something. especially in a scenario when I am working with someone who is a stranger to him ( like for eg, filling out an admission form in Abacus institute office). It may be that the urge to move is from the anxiety or discomfort of being there.
He was watching much of screens but he doesn't have access to direct screentime for the past 6-7 days. Now I see him reading on his own ,though unwillingly. How do I help him?
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I understand, as a parent, it is hard for you to see your child suffering. Over exposure to gadgets may cause problems like this.
He may have social anxiety due to lack of exposure to natural stimulants. It is a phase, where an individual grows rapidly. Indulge him in any form of group sports or individual sports like skating, cricket or any others.
Spend quality time with your child, connect with him emotionally. Social connection is very important in this phase.
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frequently take him to different places to explore and have fun with other kids of his age.
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It seems to be social Anxiety which is leading to performance anxiety.
Anxiety increases sensitivity at physical as well as at the psychological level.
It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively.
He needs an expert psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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Your child symptoms and overall activities related to different spectrums might be Biological or psychosocial factors with environmental.
First connect with child specialist for further discussion to rule out any underlying condition which affecting your child if everything is fine then connect with child psychologist to identify and improve.
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Connect with child specialist for further discussion to identify the common areas of concern.
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Try to get along with your child because he need your touch and understanding without being judged.
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The child might have intense sensitivity to stimuli. But further examination is required on a deeper medical and psychosocial level to elimate any existing causes of apathy.
At the mere of age of 7, a lot of these also might be personality traits or behaviours due to environmental and emotional triggers.
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Please consult a mental health professional for a sound examination and also get blood counts and deficiencies test done to rule out medical basis.
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Rapid change of environment can cause stressful emotional and physical reactions in a child, hence gradual transitions ate required with empathy and support.
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All the symptoms look like a highly sensitive child (HSC) . Apart from what you said there are a lot of other things that need to be considered like how long he has been like this. His birth story and other medical issues if any.
I would strongly recommend consulting him with your pediatric doctor and on their recommendation consider Behavioral therapy for him.
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Consult with pediatrician and then go for therapy
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Sounds like you're child is facing social and ritualistic issues, in which he unable to function socially and has specific rituals or ways to do specific things. Its better to consult a clinical psychologist asap. The sooner you understand the roots of these issues, the better. This will give him a better prognosis as well.
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It sounds like your son has some unique sensitivities, and it's wonderful that you're actively seeking ways to support him. Firstly, let him know it's okay to feel the way he does, and that his feelings are valid. Maybe start by slowly introducing him to situations that make him uncomfortable, taking it step by step. Communication is key, so create a space where he feels safe expressing himself without worry.
Consider using sensory tools like stress balls or fidget spinners, things he can use to feel more at ease. Keeping a structured routine might also help him feel more secure since predictability can be comforting.
If you find that these suggestions aren't bringing the desired results, it could be beneficial to consult with a child psychologist or pediatrician who specializes in sensory issues.
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