MY WIFE AND I HAVE ALWAYS HAD A HEALTHY SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP, AFTER OUR FIRST SON WAS BORN THAT WENT DOWN HILL FAST THEN AFTER OUR SECOND SON WAS BORN WE BASICALLY HAVE INTERCOURSE ONCE A MONTH. WHEN WE DO HAVE INTERCOURSE I ONLY LAST ABOUT 20 SECONDS TO A MINUTE BEFORE I EJACULATE. SO IT REALLY DOESN'T HELP OUR RELATIONSHIP MUCH. SINCE OUR SECOND CHILD WAS BORN I DID LOOSE 84LBS IN 5 MONTHS AND I HAVE BECAME WAY MORE ACTIVE. I'VE TRIED TRICKS IVE READ ONLINE BUT NOTHING HAS SEEMED TO HELP