Hello Dear Please don’t label yourself as depressive. It is quiet different from that. This adjustment problems have roots in you only. There can be marriage counselling therapist which can give both of you good results for the timing. But real answer lies within you. We need to work upon your personality type and more details of your relationships. Finding your own self would do the long term relief to you. visit oshoclinicpanchkula.com and find answer how to know your own self better and better . I will suggest you to read one book: How to live better life by ROLF DOBERI” imaging and simple journey to know the truth of life and relationships.

Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. It's quite common to have such gaps in new marriage relationships. As you have entered into a new commitment or responsibility where there is no fixed guidance, it's you need to learn yourself and gain experience. You may take some help from his family members to get some help. But see how far thay can influence him without hurting his ego. Adapting to married life takes time for few men, and  it may need a different approach to realize that they are married now. Don't worry take a marriage counseling support to discuss your problem problem. I am sure you will find ways to manage it soon

It would be better, if you both visit a psychologist cum Marriage Counselor.