Hello, I understand your pain. This might be because of repeated infection of the skin around the anus. To avoid this you need to keep hygiene. After you pass stools you should wash the are with soap nothing is left out and after thatvyour need to have diet with fiber such as bendi, leafy vegetables, carrots, cucumbers etc will help avoid this. Before that consult a doctor of your locality so that you may get targeted help. Thank you