As a normal person, it is quite common to look for something better than what you have; irrespective of what it is. You have to introspect and decide. Do a self assessment of all the qualities of both personalities. Are you trying to sail on two boats. Then you will surely drown.
Are you cheating your boyfriend and unknowingly flirting, are you getting carried away by the way your boss behaves, there are many such interrogations you can work on.
Keep your values, ethics and integrity in mind.
Next Steps
In needed, consult a Counsellor. As Counsellors they will keep things confidential yet be of help