No you can't do it in 1-2 meetings. These aspects are dynamic in nature and are influenced by a person's circumstances, priorities, values, beliefs and needs. Marrying anyone is a gamble and nobody can say surely that you will not be cheated ever in your life.
Next Steps
Please see a counselling psychologist in your city or you could have an online session with me.
Health Tips
Keeping your eyes and ears open is important.