Hi, it looks like you are thinking too much. It looks like you are thinking about too many things within a short span of time. It looks like you are feeling stressed. You can consult a psychologist and Counseling sessions will help you.

Dear 'Changing Mindset', From what you have texted I understand that you are pretty confused about various decisions and have struggle prioritizing what you want above procrastination. I request you to journal each of your thoughts and issues and write down pros and cons for each decision you want to take. Leave it for a few hours or even till the next day if possible and write the pros and cons again and revisit all your journalled thoughts and then decide. This might give you little more clarity about which option to choose and help improve your  decision making. Try it and if it doesn't work then get help from a counseling psychologist. Your overthinking and over planning might be related to some things that might be blocking your decision making and therefore the above mentioned technique will help in channeling your thoughts and the process will give you clarity of where to head and how to move forward. If your decision is made, you will feel much better and further you can fix a timeline as to by when you want to reach your goals and this will reduce the procrastination and help you work towards goals in a better way. With Regards, Dr.Nisha James

At your age one is full of life, energetic and enthusiastic, all you need to channelise your energy in the right direction...you seem to have frequent mind shifts for which detailed assessment is needed

In trying to be perfect and to win people's heart, maybe unknowingly you developed this habit.. It could also be due to fear of rejection/failure.. Also be because, you are comparing yourself with others and trying to match them..

Hello External factors like relationship,career,achievement,and lots of other factors seem to play an important role in everybody’s life..where one tries hard to achieve all this and this in turn results in insecurities..though we are capable of doing and achieving a lot our insecurity comes in our way towards achieving our goals ...be it materialistic or emotional.To satisfy all our dreams or wishes is next to impossible..So it best to prioritise and a goal one at a time and work towards better mental health which is way more important Thant pleasing others and ourselves..