Hello I am happy to see that you are willing to take care of your sibling. Remember parenting is not a cake walk. First stop bulldozing your brother. Develop a rapport with him and make him understand that it’s only you who to whom he can fall back in time of need . As you said you are not mother of him but as you have mentioned you want to be mother to him. NO don’t be a mother to him . Be his sister only but Be a guide friend philosopher to him. As teenagers what you did at 9 make him him do . Play games with him . Take part in his activities. Simultaneously don’t ignore yourself. You got life ahead. Leave your parents to themselves. Generate a hobby or yourself see which subject you are best in or learn a music. And become a tutor for neighbors children or teach basics to other small children and start earning and getting your mind diverted from home situation. Remember stick and carrot policy. Love him as your brother not as your son.. that time will come later. Guide him as sister and a friend. Don’t over correct him . Understand his capabilities and his talents. And promote them. Take help of his school teachers but again as a sister not mother.
Answered2019-08-07 01:19:26
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