There are 2 possibilities:
1. You are having impacted hard wax in your ear canal which is making it painful with excess wax discharging out of ear
2. You have an infection in the ear which is making it painful with ear discharge
treatment is different in both cases
Next Steps
please take a photo of your ear (preferably showing the interior of the ear canal) and send it to me on chat consulatation for advice on treatment
Health Tips
keep ear dry, avoid earbuds