My son who is 9 years old is adamant and keeps crying for each and everything.he is very intelligent and mature in his thinking but doesnt know why he keeps complaining about me and blaming me for anything what happens and cries.this makes the atmosphere very tense day and evening.i have another baby too who is almost 3 and both keep fighting along with the elder ones crying.can u tell me why can't he communicate without crying. I am fed up of his crying and find it really difficult to be patient.