Whenever i intercourse with my wife without condom she feels irritation in her vegina after my sperm discharge and me also find itching, white dots on my panis in morning... But when i use condom there no problem both side.. I m totally confused and dipressed about this problem that problem is with me or my wife. Whom should go to dr. first. I have taken treatment for both from different physicians they adviced antibiotics. Jn This problem started 1 month after marriage , now i hve a baby. After baby born i m regularly using condom if sometimes i don't use i have to suffer with this problem.. I have done most test like, HIV, VDRL, URINE etc..