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I have been working in IT since 6 yrs Aand stayed in hostel.My entire education till PG was totally on merit with almost no fees.I went to south africa for onsite .People tried to pull me back saying it is not a safe place but i didn't miss opportunity and went there with company accomodation.After i came back there was a sudden lockdown and i was stuck in hostel alone for four months,entire hostel was empty and i was managing all by myself.Later i got married and after six months of marriage i had a life threatening accident when i was pregnant,i had a severe facial fracture and lost all my teeth.Imagine a 5 month pregnant lady with facial fracture and 22 teeth lost!!! But still I didn't inform my parents as I knew they would cry and couldn't see me in that condition.so i stayed with my husband and managed everything by myself.Even after facing all such situations bravely,my parents say iam an incapable woman just bcoz I'm not good at household chores..How can I be gud at everything
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Hi, I am sorry you are feeling this way. I am sure this is tough. It looks like you are feeling unseen and unappreciated by your parents and that’s causing you to doubt your own self worth. You also seem to be rejecting your own self because your parents rejected you. When we feel invalidated by our own primary caregivers we feel unworthy and all our accomplishments feel nothing to us. I am sorry that this is such a huge struggle for you. We will have to create a safe space for you to experience what you are experiencing emotionally and let it all out by talking and also through a trance. Once you e released the emotions you will feel more confident about who you are and may be able to love yourself in a way where your parents weren’t able to. I know it’s tough but it’s doable. You’re brave and beautiful the way you are. You’ve done a lot. Believe.
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I can help you work on your emotions which are pulling you down. It will also help you be able to talk to your parents and tell them how you feel. Love and healing ❤️
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You have gone through a lot. You are a brave, intelligent, and independent woman. You are a caring and thoughtful person as well. You have achieved a lot and it is okay to not be good at household chores. Nobody is perfect and you can’t be good at everything.
You should feel proud of your accomplishments and your nature. Try to keep your mind calm. Consult a psychologist and talk about what you are going through. Be kind to yourself.
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Contact me for counselling session. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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You are a brave and capable person. There might be other issues with you, which needs to be resolved asap to star positive and relaxed.
You need to improve interpersonal relationships. Seek counseling sessions asap.
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Hello there
Thanks for writing in your query.
You are an inspiration for your children in future as a fearless woman taken self decisions. Don't regret choosing you.
Also, you have deep rooted issue with parents which trigger stress so for that consult with a therapist. If you want to book a session to resolve the issue directly contact here - seven nine eight two one three zero four four nine
Look at your strength that's your family. If you find you lack in chores.. Try to learn how to manage it.
But it's not about chores. Your mind will give another negative reason about discord with parent. So consult a therapist.
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Hi,lt is really commendable that you could manage to overcome the difficult situations brave enough.It is a fact that you can't please everyone.Be proud of yourself being successful in your career ..Do not stress yourself by overthinking.Enjoy the present.Consult a psychologist if you think you need professional help
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Focus on your strengths
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Hi... I believe you posted a query few months back as well and I suggested you to seek professional help. Your issues are deep rooted in your childhood and teenage. This traumatic accident while being pregnant is more like a crisis and our core issues have a tendency to surface abruptly during a crisis or in the times of our peak performances. You need to address these repressed issues of yours to lead a more fulfilling life, create a healthy marriage, and raise good kids. We (human beings) are slaves to our past experiences till the time we realize their impact on our lives and choose to act upon them. Psychotherapy will help you identify your core issues and will help you overcome your presenting issues. But it takes time. There are no quick fixes in therapy.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required
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You are a resilient woman and have achieved a lot in your life. The question is if there are people who do feel that even after the achievements you are incapable then what does it mean to you? What are your beliefs about yourself?
You should speak to a Psychotherapist regarding this. Work might be required on interpersonal relationships as well.
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