To answer your first question the only evidence based medical treatments are not homeopathic therapies but anti estrogen medications like clomiphene ( 6 months causing partial reduction upto 50% even) or tamoxifen ( varied response, some over 90%). But these uses are not for all.
Gynecomastia has to be differentiated from pseudo gynecomastia due to fat (in obese patients).
Best place is a breast plastic surgery unit.
If the breasts are over 4cm enlarged,chances are low for the lesion to regress.Surgery is quite straightforward, using a small cut near the areola and using liposuction and a procedure called subcutaneous mastectomy (the excess tissue is removed).
The unit would also do all necessary tests, including a CT scan of the breasts, check your testicles
liver kidneys.
Hope this helps.
Next Steps
breast plastic surgery unit for total workup.