Hi, It depends. Not every guy or girl has same preferences. If you like it and want to perform that in your relationship, talk to your partner. If required, both of you can visit a psychologist to discuss and explore more about it. But this is absolutely normal to have this kind of desire or not to have.

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Hi, Thank you for sharing your concern. Different people have different sexual preferences, interests, and comfort levels. An experience that some individuals enjoy does not mean that everyone will feel the same way. Therefore, it may not be accurate to generalize that all men have similar preferences. Since you are now in a committed relationship, the most important factor is open and respectful communication. Rather than assuming how your partner may react, try discussing intimacy, preferences, boundaries, and comfort levels gradually. This can help both of you understand each other’s expectations better. Healthy relationships are built on mutual consent, trust, and respect. Your partner may be comfortable with some things and not with others, and that is perfectly okay. An open conversation is often more helpful than making assumptions. Take your time, communicate honestly, and respect each other’s boundaries and choices. Dr Namita Ranjan Counselling Psychologist