Hi there,
A detailed medical and psychiatric history is always needed for every case .In addition, there is always a need for a detailed mental status examination to come for a diagnosis and its management accordingly.
It’s not clear from how long you have been having such “ symptoms “?
Have they started during your adolescence years?
Early individual have different traits.
Being submissive to “Dominant personality “ whom a person likes is a new phenomenon.
Are you married?
Was any stressful event before your symptoms emerged?
Most of the time, humiliation causes other Erection problems.
Next Steps
You need to get consultation from a mental health professional.
As you are willing to come out of that, Be positive in your thoughts for a better result.