For reducing masturbation/sex addiction and porn habbit: Explore and make a list of time when you usually masturbate including factors which lead to it.
- avoid same factors at that particular time, e.g. If you masturbate when you are lonely, then try to be with people all the time.
- divert your mind from thoughts of masturbation: sit back, relax, drink a glass of water, try counting backwards from 50 to 1.
- if you are used to masturbate watching porn, thn block porn in internet connection and delete all the files you have.
- do other activities like swimming, walking, any outdoor sports or going out with friends - if you masturbate in shower, take a quick cold shower and get out early.
- If you masturbate while sleeping, for some days sleep in the same room with family members or friend.
- start exercising hard while you have excess thoughts of masturbation. This is how you will lose energy, feel tired and would go to sleep without masturbation.
Urges generally last not more than half hour, you have to divert your mind in this half an hour.
Next Steps
I would like to suggest you a kegel exercise
While you are urinating, stop the urine mid steam for 2 seconds. This should be done by contracting the muscles and NOT BY USING HANDS. After 2 seconds, you should let the urine pass for next 5 seconds and again stop it midstream. This sounds simple but requires practice. This needs to be done each time you go for urination. Initially you may stop the urine only ones but gradually the frequency of stoppage can be increased. After 8 - 10 times of this, once u identify those muscles u can do it while working or sitting at workplace or at home, contract (tighten) those muscles for 5 seconds and then release it for 5 seconds.
FOOD:
1. Ginger and Honey: Take half a teaspoon of ginger and the same amount of honey and add this to a glass of warm milk. Drink before you are off to bed and you will surely notice the change.
2. Raw garlic too can help in treating sexual dysfunctions and other problems in men and women. Chewing 3-4 cloves of garlic can make a lot of difference and help you reamin healthy as well.
3. Carrots and eggs: Chop 2 carrots & mix it with a half boiled egg. Add 1 tablespoon of honey to this. This can taken everyday for about 3 months.
4. Almonds, cow's milk, ginger powder, cardamom and saffron: Soak 10 almonds in water overnight, Peel o the skin and crush them the next morning. Take 1 cup hot cow's milk, Add the crushed almonds, a pinch of ginger powder, a pinch of cardamom powder, a pich of saffron and mix them all well. Drink this every morning
5. Have fresh fruits like watermelon, bananas, oranges, Strawberry, papaya, pineapple, and also have fresh fruit juices twice daily .
6. Have Vegetables like Asparagus, cabbage, carrots, lady’s finger, beans, mushrooms, onion
7. Other things like Eggs, oats, dark chocolate, almonds, walnuts, cereals, honey, milk
U can follow any 1-2 food items as per your taste and availablity
Health Tips
certain medicines can also be helpful for better results