Hello, stool is hard that DAMAGE inner layer of mucosaof so it's painful. STOOL SOFTENER LIKE CREMAFIN PINK THREE TEASPOON FULL AT NIGHT TILL STOOL BECOMES SOFT TO BE TAKEN. Avoid spicy fried greasy junk food or food from outside.plentyof liqids like butter milk, nimupani coconut water mosambi juice water tea coffee  salad two times before lunch and dinner.light dietewith least oil n spices. Locally apply with finger xylocain gel and anovate oint in equal quantity on butt hole than gentaly push inside anal cannal n apply all around properly in anal MUCOSA.two minbefore stool so no pain is there. Continue it for three weeks. It is RECURRENT. So CONTROL YOUR TEMPTATION.ok.